09 October 2008

Blaargh!

Breathing a sigh of relief today, as life has somewhat returned to normal.

We are all recovered, E-chan is back at kindy today, and we are trying to make up our lost hours. Nanna has left and taken all of her lack-of-personal-boundaries issues with her, which of course came to a head again as it always does when she stays with us for more than a couple of days, and always when C-chan isn’t around. I mean seriously matriarchs of the world – drop your “need to be needed” approach to everything once your kids have grown up, and leave the issue alone if your offer for help is turned down on occasion. It’s not the end of the world, and independence is healthy for your adult kids. My own mother would have been like this too, had I not given her grief as a teenager with my fierce independence. And she has at least worked out that it’s best for everyone if you organise the odd activity on your own and away from the house when staying somewhere for extended periods. But I sound ungrateful. As well as looking after E-chan for a week, she helped out with the dishes, vacuumed and a few other helpful odd tasks!

Other issues and thoughts:
– perhaps we will get a cleaner mostly to clean the bathroom and maybe do some ironing??
– Toilet cleaner commercials ridiculously overstate the dirtiness of your average toilet, as well as implying that a good old toilet brush and a bit of elbow grease won’t do the trick most of the time.
– We have some ferals over the back fence! What would life be without some weird neighbours to scrutinise?
– Must clean up my language. NOW. Picked up E-chan to carry him to his pram when it was time to leave this morning, and he objected and struggled out of my arms, causing me to lose me balance and almost fall to the ground. Uttered “S—t, Ethan!”, to which he called out “S—t Mummy!” as if it is the appropriate response, whilst continuing to squirm out of my arms. Attempt 2 involved coaxing to the pram with favourite toy in hand, which worked much better and involved no expletives.
- Radio going on about the economy, whilst I can hear "tractor tractor tractor tractor...." to the tune of Twinkle Twinkle Little Star!

What is happening in everyone else’s world? Betty Sue, do you still exist? B Sharp, are you still frantically busy? Seagreen, read and loved your zine which arrived on Tuesday. Angel, how are you now? We are free of gastro now and there is no risk of contamination. Who else is reading this thing?

3 comments:

alison said...

still here and still reading, love!

just trying to summon the energy to start up the blogging agina, properly.

BSharp said...

hola! Its 8.30 at night and i just got back from Spain. Because i am a climate criminal. Always readin', looking forward to being back to actually hang with youse and the little dude. Yep, busy like crazy , booked up with about 40 hours a week till Christmas (yay!) and with no life (boo). r. xx

J said...

career meltdown progressing nicely over here. Perfecting the art of crying at work - not a skill I knew I wanted... but oh well. Your posts interesting and I nod along and think replies as I read! :) I reckon go as part time as you can afford to (or drop the day job altogether and get your brain stim from reading and chatting and working on your own projects) and we can go to food co-ops together and cook from scratch and book swap and buy second hand to save money! (I am thinking of going far more part time next year). You are supermum, and doing a great job of juggling and being many things all at once. Oh and I say yah to cleaners, has made things nicer in our house, and meant even our windows get cleaned sometimes - ooh exciting. x